[kjurgi]

Thanks. Maybe I am but from the way the posts were sounding it seemed like they were all just dimissing all the things that he has done.

Her father is not a good man. He thinks the world owes him a favor and that everyone is out to get him.

He wouldn't do any kind of visitation with my supervising. He wouldn't even deal with me on a face to face basis. He had his wife do it. I really think it is more his wife who wants to see her than him. He has never approached me regarding any of this. They had it at the point where they told me to not call their house until the day before they were to pick her up and that was only if she was sick or something had happened to her that would interfere with their visitation.

I think she might want to see her stepmother more than her father. She has always had a good relationship with my current husband.

That might work. I'm just trying to figure out a way to make her understand why she hasn't seen daddy. Yeah they can be especially when they are very bright. Maybe I will do that. I really appreciate what you've been able to say to me. Thank you very much