[spaypets]

((Brandy)), your afather, frankly, is an idiot. I wouldn't waste my time trying to explain to him or get him to change his mind or anything. You really drew the short end of the stick when you got relatives, didn't you? Why the system ever allowed those two people to have a child is astounding. I am amazed that you have turned out to be such a warm and giving person despite the appalling number of horrid adults in your life as a child.

So does he think your husband shouldn't be allowed to have other children because he married you?

Look, if you really feel motivated to do something, get him a book. He won't read it, but you won't feel as if you didn't do anything to change his mind.

I'm so sorry.