[kjurgi]

I am not allowing it. Also my husband won't allow it. I know what my ex-husband is like. He didn't even spend the time with her when he did have her. He would choose a car show over his daughter and he has.

It has nothing to me. I've hated this man for the last 3 years and still tried to be decent to him with regards to my daughter and for my daughter's sake.

I don't think I'm signing in anymore. It really feels like I am getting pressured to do something that really won't be good for my daughter in the long run.

I signed on here for help and I haven't really gotten. Her father has shown in the past that he should not have her. He has put other things before her.

I have never denied him any time. I have always offered him time if for some reason he could not see her. This was the case with my wedding, the birthday parties and everything else.

He set up the visitation it wasn't the courts. He went from seeing her twice a week and every other weekend from Friday to Saturday to every other weekend if he even did that. He went a month and a half not even seeing her or calling about her except to cancel his vistation about 5 minutes before he was to be there. This was all done on his own. He doesn't want to spend time with his daughter. He is making it so it looks like he does. He doesn't so anything with his daughter when he does see her. She is with her stepmother and that was proven by my daughter never ever mentioning him but always her stepmother.

Thanks and no thank for the help I received.