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He has never shown any violence towards me but in the past he has been known to be violent towards other people. He does have a very bad temper. Most of the time when we were married he would go downstairs when we were fighting so that he wouldn't hit me. Quite a few occasions he would get mad at me and would not want to take her so he would not take it out on her.

The reason I dont want him to see her is that I've fought with him over and over again about money and every other subject with regards to our daughter. He never wanted her to be involved in anything and felt that he really didn't have to pay for anything. He actually tried to take me to court over cutting her hair.

I won't let him see her as I really don't want his influences in her life and also I just feel that it will really confuse her with regards t this. Her name is different but she still sees him. She was beginning to get confused over everything as it was. She was calling her stepmother mommy and things like that. She was beginning to act out. Also I feel that since this was his idea to sign away his rights which was done for money reasons so that he would not have to support her that he also doesn't need to see her and confuse her life.