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Originally Posted By Marie

If birthmoms are choosing the parents of their children, then why be so upset. It is each individuals choice to the parents they choose. Now, when a birthmom places their child in foster care because they don't want to deal with it and they are unhappy because a single parent raised their child, that is no fault of the single parent. Birthparents should be involved in the choosing or they loose their rights to judge who their child ended up with. What about divorce? It happens as much with adoptive parents as bio parents if not more. There are no guarantees. It has been said by studies that children in single parent homes are better adjusted than those who started with two parents who later got divorced. My message is not to argue your point, only to give you something to think about.