My neice gave her son up for adoption to a cousin. It has created so problems and blessings. For one, my sister has a grandson she cant see & has to treat like a cousin. My Cousin is always on guard... hoping no one will rock the boat. On the other hand... we know where he is... we know he is ok & EVERYONE knows their place. It is like someone said... it will take everyone working together. It will take a lot of prayer & patience. My daughter is adopted. I dont know how I would feel about the b- mother being around all the time. For the short time she was around I was a nervous wreck.
Talk to your bishop and pray about it. No decision worth making will be easy... trust me. My daughter was the best decision I ever made!!!
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