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Originally Posted by Linnie65
Here's a related question - how old before you'll leave the kids alone? Ours are 12 & 9. Now, I was babysitting when I was 12, but my mom was right down the street. I'm not really comfortable leaving them for any length of time - what's everyone's opinions?
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I think you should ask yourself why you feel uncomfortable about it. Is it just because it is unfamiliar, or are you concerned about safety, etc. That is a good place to start. You will certainly have to evaluate maturity of the children, safety issues, and so much more. It is a difficult decision.
One important thing to consider is law. I don't know what state you live in, but some states have laws restricting when children can be left alone. Oklahoma has no law-DHS says you can leave a 6 y/o alone for a couple hours as long as there is a neighbor or some close that they can call for help.
I can't imagine! However, I was told by a day care provider in Texas that no one under 12 can be left without an adult, which excludes your 9 year old. You might want to check it out.