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Well the cw called. They all agreed for T to go home with his dad. Condition is mom will not be allwoed to visit with out it being supervised by a case aid. He will start having visits for 4 hours on weekends with dad. Then move them to spending the night and then perm. The cw is not sure when to move perm she needs to talk to the gal. But I guess around a month. Im heart brocken, but yet happy that he gets to be with his dad. He is a very nice man and he really love his son.
Motherearth-Do you have to suppervise the visit? Has she ever visited her daughter before? Im always surprised when they have the foster parents supervise visits. I have never had to supervise a visit and if they asked me I prob would say no. I dont know, but I think I would not feel right supervising a parent and their child. Here when a child has supervised visit it means that the person who supervise has to determine if the bonding is going well that the parent is parenting right and need to make suggestion how to parent better. I dont think Id be confortable telling a bio parent if they are parenting right or not to their child. We can not give our telephone number, unless there is phone contact, and they can not know where we live. If we have to call the parents like I do, the cw told me to block my call so he can not get my number, even if I dont mind dad getting it. How do you feel about supervising the visit if thats what you are doing?
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