Tigger27 has really said it all - I was in the opposite situation that I didn't have anybody to talk with about my bson's adoption. Both situations can be equally difficult.
All I can say is it does get easier with time to cope and life does go on even though you never forget your child. My bson is 23, we are in reunion and yet I found Mother's Day (6th March in the UK) so hard to cope with but having responses from you and others helped me stop feeling sorry for myself. That says it all that you personally can make people feel better.
Hugs,
Montravia
