[mattecook]

I personally am not a fan of cosleeping but have many friends who are. Both ways are right meaning which ever works with your family. We spent alot of time holding Emma and talking to her she has bonded wonderfully. I took baths with Emma for the first couple of weeks and that time was very special to us. She now takes her own baths. Here is my thoughts many of us worry considerably about bonding but when that baby is placed in our arms those worries fade away. You are so in love with this baby that is yours you just do what it takes. That isn't to say that bonding doesn't take time it does but when you do what comes naturally to you and your family it is a joyous time of exploring what your child likes and dislikes and their personality etc. I am a big believer that even though those first days or weeks can be rough it will work out with time, love, patience and understanding.

Ami