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Hi,
I don't know quite what to say about this I know if my wife was in contact with her bson's dad I would flip a lid about that one but on the other side of the coin I feel that pride is coming into play here. Pride can take all sorts of shapes and disguises. You see if I thought my wife was in contact with her ex that would totally cut me up big time so in that respect I can understand the way your partner may be feeling. This boils down to pride and trust within your relationship. Do I trust my wife? Yes with my life. Would I trust her ex? No not at all ok.
But saying that your partner should support you in searching for your child and to be there for you at all times. My wife is in reunion with her bson and I stay in the background just in case they need me for anything. Please read 'Listening ears' which I have written , to find out more.
I wish you all the luck in the world and a great reunion with your child.
All the best,
tron1
A husband supporting his wife
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