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Old 03-04-2005, 06:44 PM
danr611 danr611 is offline
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It would not appear that way

I am very concerned about the birth mothers' anger and sadness. I always think honesty and openness is the best policy. Not that I want to call them explicitly to tell them, but I also do not want to avoid the topic when we do have contact. I am sure that my wife, as the initiator, wants to not bring it up if possible and in fact has already said so in not so many words. I wonder how to say something like this to people who we wrote letters to about how wonderful we were.

I have hope that we could save the marriage, but I believe that my wife is long gone already and does not appear to be having any second thoughts - which devastates me.

DAN
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