hi,
thanks for taking the time to respond-I appreciate it
. I think there are times to fight, and very good reasons to fight, but as one who had to fight constantly, it becomes a bit much after a while. While my mom was up for the fight (she's native amer., looks white), I personally had to bear the brunt of it and really wanted to just be "like everyone else"-not white, just not viewed as "different". The job of educating the world is exhausting, as I'm sure you know.
I understand the job thing and all that, just wanted to suggest that in case it was at all possible it would be good for the kids.
sorry about the sick child-seems to be a major cold/flu going around, mutating and becoming scarier each mutation. I hope everyone gets healthy and stays that way
lisaCA
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-first time amom to dd, born 7/7/04
-placed in our arms by a very loving bmom 7/9/04
-bfather's rights terminated 9/7/04
-just connected with bdad!!! 2/9/05
-visited bfamilies for a week, awesome trip 6/05
-bfather signed legally binding open adoption
agreement 7/05
-finalized (woohoo!) 18th of November 2005
-Thinking about adoption #2!
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