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I had my son 2 years before I met my husband. I told him about it when we started dating seriously. I could not imagine entering marriage with such an important life event being a secret. Even though it was 1967 and there was still much of the stigma of unwed motherhood in the small town mentality of where we grew up, we accepted each other, accompanying baggage and all. In the 30 plus years we have been married, we have had problems, some major, but the topic of my bson was never a part of those problems. He is very supportive of our reunion- granted it is in the early stages. I am glad to hear from a man who is also understanding. After all, our life experiences are what shape us a human beings. Thanks, Tron. Gee, I wonder if my bson's wife has considered the prospect of having 2 mother-in-laws!!!
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