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I started searching at about 23. I found bmom at age 26.
Funny about the bfather thing. I never had much interest in him either. I did want his name, info. etc. but never really wanted to know him. I hear you Elizabeth on not missing any pieces re: not knowing bdad. I did go on to communicate with my bdad but no f2f. I ended it after a bit becasue he is such a weirdo. I have always felt strange for so very badly wanting to be a part of and know my bmom but really didn't care much about my bdad. Btw, after meeting bdad I figured out pretty fast that he doesn't care much about me either. Maybe it's something I sensed in my being?? More likely a socially constructed norm re mother vs. fatherhood.
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