[emilyangel]

The daughter I placed for adoption was concieved in rape. I did not tell her adoptive parents this, and wonder if that was a mistake. They just know he was not a good man ( a longtime friend of mine, who just one day, I dunno, snapped...), and that they do not want him in their daughters' life.

I know you asked for opinions of those still parenting their child, but it's so rare for me to find anyone who has a child concieved in rape, that I just felt comfort in knowing I wasn't alone in this.

I do wonder what I will say to her if she, one day, asks about her birthfather...