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Maybe it's time you start avoiding them for awhile.
That is what I had to do with my family at times. Going thru infertility for years and then seeing others so easily getting pregnant while not taking care of the children they do have, made it impossible for me to sit and bear it. The off hand remarks that were not meant to hurt, yet did, had me leaving there in tears sometimes and my dh and I often bickering.
I had to take a break from family for a while. You might consider doing that, also. The person I was then going thru infertility is the not person I really am. KWIM?
Good luck!
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We waited for you against all hope. We came for you with the greatest of hopes. (Nancy McGuire Roche, adoptive parent)
Last edited by AMom2Two : 02-23-2005 at 07:47 AM.
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