[nikig]

My 8 yr old's biological father just voluntarily signed over his parental rights. My husband wants to adopt my son. My attorney said that she thinks with a home study, the social worker has to discuss my son's understanding and feelings about being adopted. the problem is, he has known my husband since he was a baby and has no idea about what is going on. his biological father was never around. does anyone know if this has to be discussed? My son is not mature enough to deal with this information. I know we have to tell him some day, but now is not the time! I don't mind the social worker talking to my son, but I am not ready to tell jared that the my husband is not his biological father. any information about this?