In our state, they told us that fkids CANNOT sleep in our bed even the babies....That's a no-no! U can have a crib in ur room until the fc is 18mths then they have to have their own room.... this hasn't come up b/c our fs sleeps good in his room......so we haven't dealt w this issue.....but dh n i thought that if a fc came to us and wanted to sleep w us, we would go to their room and lay w them til they fell back asleep....
I think this issue would b harder to handle if u had bio-kids b/c the fc would see them do this and want to.... but they also stress not having different rules for bio-kids and f-kids....
