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Hi,
I gave up my bson 23 years ago in closed adoption as that was the only option although I did receive one letter from his amum, it included telling me they had kept his 2nd name (adad's name) but changed his 1st name. Personally I am glad it was like that as I don't think I could have handled regular contact even by letter only as it would have been a constant reminder of the adoption. Obviously not everyone feels the same as me and we all have a right to how we feel about about open and closed adoptions.
Now 23 years on I have been in reunion with my bson since Aug 2005.
Montravia
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