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We're in the midst of going through a domestic adoption of a 5 year old girl.
We really wanted an older child or sibling group, as well. Babies are wonderful, and there are a lot of people out there who are very suited for it. But as silly as it sounds, we really wanted the child to be in school, be able to dress themselves, tie their shoes and write their names. S is a little younger than we would have chosen, but she's wonderful!
We also looked at international adoption, but felt that between the language barriers and the fees, it just wasn't viable for us at the time. We may consider it later on, but it just didn't "feel right". After a lot of prayer we decided to go domestic. While the waiting period seemed long at first, we came around and were excited about really making the most of that time. Sure enough, His plan was different...she was placed in our home as a foster child (we don't have our homestudy done) 3 months after we applied.
Sure, there are some really rough days, but there are with any kids. But they get fewer and far between. The support we've gotten from Children's Aid (we're in Ontario) has been so, so wonderful. I couldn't imagine not having them to turn to.
Allana
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