I also have two bio sons (oldest was adopted by my dh though) and we just adopted (TODAY
) our daughter. I bonded with our baby immediately and think that I might have even been more protective of her than I was with the boys (but then, she was only 1/2 their size at birth). My four-year-old often talks about his "other Mom," or he'll say "when I went on visits..." (Dd came through foster care and had visitation off and on for her first year). I love the fact that our children can come from anywhere and we love them all the same.