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Thank you all for your insight and words of wisdom. This forum is great! I've been stuck to it for the last three days reading everything remotely related. I'm sure my hubby and I will be doing lots of talking in the next week. (Because the kids are foster-to-adopt, we may have the babies in just a few short weeks.) If so, I'm planning on taking a leave from work to adjust. Two of the three are in daycare during the day currently. I'm thinking I may want to keep this routine up if we do take the kids to make the adjustment easier on all of us. (Especially, when it comes time for me to go back to work.) I find myself looking at every baby I pass in stores now. Wondering about their ages and watching the relationship between mommy/daddy and baby. I'm listening at their cries and thinking "ok...that crying isn't so bad.. I can handle that." Or..."ok...that mom has two little ones pulling on her. She looks tired, but she seems to have everything together." Funny. I'll keep you posted on how things go. We learn more about the babies this Wednesday. Thanks again for your support and advice.
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