where to start
I am not from AK either but would love to help. In my opinion the firsst question to answer is International or Domestic. Once you have that decided then start looking for agencies. I would ask for information packets from each of them, they are more than willing to send them. They know that you are looking at other agencies and that you need all the info you can get. They are usually pretty good about talking to you on the phone and answering your questions. This could also give you a feel for them - what they know, how much they are willing to help you out and make you feel comfortable using them. I would also ask (usually one is given) for a referral list and talk to as many of them as you are comfortable with. You do not have to decide on a country or age of child until later. Now, of course, you need to pick on agency with countries you think you may be interested in, however, you don't have to be specific right away. The agency and your social worker can help you decide which country and age of child.
My husband and I got a home equity loan and that will be used to cover all the expenses. Our bank said they didn't care what we used the money for.
If you choose an agency in another state, we did, your primary agency should be able to help you find a SW in your state to do the homestudy or they should at least point you in the right direction.
I felt lost when we started too but it will get better. A book my friend used to help her find an agency is "The Adoption Option" I have it but have never looked at it. I used the internet to find our agency. This forum is a big help. You have to PM any info on an agency but people here are willing to help. You just have to ask!!
Hope this helps. If you have any other questions feel free to PM me.
Cheryl
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