[nursie]

Thanks for your replies.
I spoke to the SW yesterday and she informed me that the bf is back in the state and has called her with an interest to take Paternity tests, etc. She told me that he got money from a Community Action Program to get back to MN and does not have a job and is living with his mom.
The plan is to test him and then go from there. The SW did state she talked to an Adoption SW who said that it is VERY difficult to split sibs and unless the dad and/or gma is willing to take our 3yo fs also(not the same father) that they would not support splitting the sibs. She also said the SS dept. does not have a plan to move either child out of our home anytime soon.
She said they have to consider relatives for adoption placement but are still able to do what is in the BEST interest of the child which may be the foster parents to adopt. Interesting.
I also spoke with the bmom and she said she does not want her kids going to them and that if they terminate her rights she wants them to stay with us. She said she used to do drugs with both the alleged bdad and the gma. Wow, I hope that SS's doesn't approve them to take these kids with a drug history of both the potential dad and gma who wants to adopt.!!! Having the bmom be opposed to the kids going to the bdad or gma may help in the Courtroom to keep them out of that home.
Just waiting impatiently to see what happens next.
Praying fervently for safety for these children's future.
Oh, yea, the bdad's sister had her children taken away also due to drug use and the gma never adopted them !?