When we questioned a SW (AA), we were told that there were 2 reasons that she saw may be a cause for the difference in fees. She had said that she witnessed many AA moms who never really thought about adoption since it is more "socially accepted" and the fact that there was more of a willingness for a family member to step in and help the mom raise her child (mom, grandmom, etc.). She said that when she offers adoption as one of the options for moms, it is culturally not accepted. She said that the majority of the mothers were well aware of what assistance was available to them and were willing to "do the best that they could". One young woman told her that "if [her] mother and grandmother could do it, then why couldn't she?"
As an AA, it bothers me that browner skin is a reasoning for reduced adoption costs and a "perceived notion" that white is "right" and , therefore, the better option. Even that subtle message rings loud and clear for most of us. It is a harsh reality and one that is clearly mirrored in our society. And we wonder why racism is still alive and well in this country!
