[msheartofgold]

Hey guys
You know in some cases it just hard to say if gp's may get the child just because they are the gp's.

Now in our case the paternal gm came forward wanted our fd after she's been in care for 7months "go figure" we had a FSP meeting and i ask her why the sudden interest, I just wanted to know what kind of lie she was going to make up "oh i just found out i had a grand child " Not the truth at all.

When our fd was 3week old ( had her since she was 2days old) we had a vist with bmom and bdad for the first time dad seem to be so happy to have had his first child, was even at the birth now why in the world would he have not told his mom she was going to be a gm. Well back to the story dad was arrested a week after his first visit for domistic abuse aganist the bmom was in jail for 6 1/2 months. With that being said there is an order of protection (two years at the least) for our fd because he made death and abuse threats. There is also one for bmom because he tried to choke her to death.

Now what we were told at the FSP meeting that child could not live with dad because for his mental issues, drug abuse, a self mutilator,being a pedophile and a host of other things. Now the catch is our fd's dad lives with his mother not a good situitation for the child the gm works a fulltime job which means the child must be home all day with her dad.
A homestudy was conducted on gm and she failed, don't know why. It is also down on record that my fd's dad and siblings were in foster care for most of their lives, so i don't know if this make a difference.
The bmom time and time again has stated that she does not want her child with him or his family, mind you the still see each other despite the order, she just say they are not the kind of people to raise children.

We still don't know the out come of our fd's future but we pray it's with our family.
"Sorry to Vent"

Nursie as for you and your family just stay strong you never know what my happen they still have to prove gm is fit also.
Good Luck