Thanks for this forum Sarah.
My wife and I started TTC (half heartedly) last October. It is curious how when you are not trying it just happens, and then when you are ready for it to happen you have no idea how to actually make it happen. Apart from the obvious, I mean.
So far, I am not worried about infertility or anything. It has been a busy time of year, and we have not had as much practice as is probably required. We have not even worked out how long her cycle is. Is 38 days weird?