[sfbaymom2000]

mamasoon,

I am happy for you that the visit went well, under the circumstances. You sound like a very compassionate person.

kforkids,

Good luck with your visit. Even though we are early in the process, I always try to think ahead to when M is an adul (and how she might feel about how things were handled). It may mean a lot to your son later on that you were at the good-bye visit, and gracious to his birth parents.