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I'm sure if you asked you would be given permission to have her hair cut.

Having said that, however, I wanted to tell you the story of our fd's sister. She is living with relatives and had long, BEAUTIFUL, red curly hair. Immediately after being placed with the relatives they cut her hair SEVERELY short (I'm talking about an inch maybe 2 long!) This person just didn't want to deal with it, it had nothing to do with what B wanted. My fd's sister was 8 at the time. She is now 10 and I have met her and she is absolutely heartbroken that this relative did that to her as is their mom.

I can't remember the length you said your fd's hair is now, however, I'd like to recommend just cutting a few inches to begin with, then slowly take it up if you still have problems with it. Also, ask your fd what she wants. She may want it cut to the shoulder or even above.

Michelle