nmbr1dbcksfan...
Please understand that most of the adoptive parents I know go through this too...Adoption is full of love, sadness, happiness, grief and loss...Just as YOU feel loss over many things, adoptive parents also feel loss. THIS is our loss..
I dont think this poster was aiming at you or anyone, she is dealing with an aspect of being an adoptive parent...an aspect that she will have to come to peace with.
She is asking for our guidance and experience, I know you have alot of this to offer. I'm sorry that you are going through a rough time, I hope things turn around for you soon.
As for how I feel about it.......Much the same as others have said...I'm his mommy, no one else is.
No amount of love or visitation on her part will change that. She gave birth to him, no one else did
no amount of love or time on my part will change or erase that.
Message me anytime...I still have days where it hurts, but most days are fabulous!
Leigh