[ferocity302]

Thank You so much for the input...

She has slept with the radio on. She is very very glad the b/f is gone.

I know she has nightmares. When she does I talk to her about what it was that scared her and think of ways to reasure her that it is truely just a dream and that everything will be ok. I talk about what maybe we can do together to help her think of something else.

She does really good when she has a friend spend the night or if I let the kids sleep in the livingroom. It just seems she's afraid of being alone.

I have in turn asked her to come sleep with me if I have had a bad feeling or nightmare (ok mom needs the same help here. lol)

Maybe if it's not on a regular basis it's ok?