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From what I have seen in your messages, it seems clear that you already know that you and your family need a break. However, I am no fan of disruptions for these kids (and I know you are not either).
There will always be kids who need a home but at some point, you have to make the kids already in your life a priority! and it sounds like they need some space to grow and be a family without all of the chaos that new kids coming and going brings.
Your needs are as important as the needs of any child you get called about. And, it is ok to say no or to even take a break.
My point is, don't be blinded by the needs of those outside when you and your family have needs that are waiting to be fulfilled.
Sadly, there will always be a need for more homes and we, as individuals can only do so much. As, your kids get older, you can come back to fostering (if that is what you are called to).
The hardest thing to do is say no but sometimes, wehave to say it.
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