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reluctant spouse
I also had a reluctant spouse. We talked for two years about adoption (actually I talked and it went in one ear and out the other on his side) He kept telling me he didn't want anymore children (we have 2) but he couldn't explain why. When it was brought up again recently around Christmas, he finally told me his reason all along had been financial, because we had such a rough start financial. Now that we aren't struggling, he is all for it. Now it's me standing in the way which is a long story. But we will be looking again in Sept. Anyway, if your spouse is reluctant, try to find out the reason, it may be something that you can work out and it may be something that you would never guess!!!
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