[Sylvester]

Sadiegirl, it is not that rare for the bf to sign before birth. In both of our adoptions bf's signed away their rights before birth, it obviously depends on the state you are in.

Has your attorney contacted the bf? That would be the best place to start. I think sometimes the bf's just say things to make the birthmom upset. Although he is a parent to this child, he does have a say it what happens to it. All you can do is go down the legal road and follow the right path. Good luck!