[Big Dreamer]

I am so sorry that you are going through this.

I also believe that your children are your priority.

I hope that someday they realize that they are missing out on the love of two wonderful children.

I am sure that you are overwhelmed at the thought of not having your mom in your life in the role of grandmother however...you deserve to be happy and so do your children.

Any possability that you could have the kids draw a few pictures or paint a picture then attach a note (from you) letting her know that all of you are thinking of her?

Maybe if she sees the pictures she will realize that the kids are reaching out. Meanwhile...you might just tell the kids that you are sending thier art to family members who need a Pick Me Up...you don't really need to tell them it is to grandma that way if she doesn't respond in a positive way it will not affect them.

Just a thought...may your New Year fill your heart with blesssings.

Maria