Our son looks just like us. In fact, when people find out he is adopted, they are shocked. We have been speaking very openly to him about adoption since he was a wee toddler. I cannot imagine having it any other way. Believe me, if your sister does not tell her child that he or she is adopted, someone else will. Without knowing, the child's life is being built around a lie.
Honesty is always the best policy.
