Hi Jo,
I really need to go to bed! It's 2:20 am here! But I wanted to quickly answer. We haven't met the pbmom. She doesn't want to meet until placement. I don't know if we'll talk or not before she delivers. Right now, she doesn't want to. She is raising a 4 yr old who I believe was delivered at 40 weeks, and the baby she placed she delivered at 39 weeks, so she's been pretty consistent as well. Both boys were 8 lbs something so I think we're looking at another 8 lb boy. But dd was 9 lbs 11 ozs so I'm used to big babies!
I think the fact that they have the same due date, and that they've both placed before are both good signs! Now we just have to wait and see who delivers first.
Oh, in case you're interested, I have this silly little counter on my desktop. It's telling me that the pbmoms are due in 7 weeks and 6 days as of Wednesday. (I'm not sure what time zone you're in. I live on the East Coast.)
Have a good night and we'll chat some more tomorrow!