[bertha]

TO MY BROTHER

life is too short.through this process ive talked to alot of people who are searching and some will never find there birth families.for some they have found siblings but its too late for birthparents they have already passed.some have found birthparents names but choose not to contact them until they have children of their own and want to know medical history.dont they stop and think it will most likely be too late by then.people are getting older and probably wont be around when they decide the time is right.i know for me i stopped talking to one of our birthparents the day i found out about you.i blamed them and now they are no longer around.then i found out you dont want to be found and i ask myself was it worth all those years of blame.trust me life is too short and you dont want to realize one day it just wasnt worth it.