[1of2moms]

If we are able to adopt our fson we will change the spelling of his name. His bmother could not (still can't) spell and his name is misspelled. Imagine seeing Joeseth, you would not know that mom ment it to be Joseph (not his name but the same problem). So we will standarize the spelling. Right now he says his name is D** J** C**(birth last name) S** (our last name). I think we will drop the C** if we can adopt him, but maybe we will leave it as a second middle name. We do not have issues of safety as some do. Bmom is/was just young, ignorant, and low functioning. I doubt she would have the where-with-all to try to find D. But she would try to use his SS# so the changing of it would be a very good idea.