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Originally Posted by fosterma
Are you open to sibs? I think it also increases your chances. For sure consider taking a future sib if one should be born. We were SOOOO against the idea (despite what God had planned  ) but it's been great having both of them and knowing they'll grow up with a bio-relative. Alot of what I've read on this forum and through books has taught me how important that is. |
My DH and I are absolutely open to sibs. We were hoping to limit kids number to two, but it really depends on the ages. My ideal would be a two to four year old and an under 18 month old, but I'm
really not that specific. I know I'll "feel" when it's right. My gut usually steers me in the right direction.
I still have one main concern that hopefully won't disqualify us from fostering. Both DH and I are self employed so I'm not sure how they handle this since we're not exactly W2 income earners and our jobs are somewhat new (last 6 mos) even though very secure. So we'll see.. if anything disqualifies us it will be that.
That being said, both of the companies we contact our work are willing to do letters and everything needed for us so hopefully it's a go... this whole process is so unknown it somewhat unnerves me!! But, isn't that the very definition of having children?!? LOL