You are SO RIGHT it's worth it!! That is too funny....we got into it for a specific child (cousin's grandaughter) and weren't able to foster or adopt her either. Now we're glad because I think the whole family thing would've been hard, not to mention that we have the most wonderful 2 little people I know
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Are you open to sibs? I think it also increases your chances. For sure consider taking a future sib if one should be born. We were SOOOO against the idea (despite what God had planned
) but it's been great having both of them and knowing they'll grow up with a bio-relative. Alot of what I've read on this forum and through books has taught me how important that is.
I hope your forever children find you guys VERY soon!!! You sound like such nice women, but of course, you're from IOWA
