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I don't think that sending the birthmom a letter and a few pictures, once or twice a year can hurt anything. It might also help her not to be a bitter person instead help her to grow and be a better person. M might want to meet her again as an adult, so, if I was you, I would want her to be the best person she could be. If she writes back via CPS you don't have to show the letters to M until you think he is ready, so there is no harm done.
Just my thoughts.
Ruth
Last edited by mommy2savanna : 12-18-2004 at 07:36 AM.
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