[DisownedRocker]

honestly, I'd tell him to get bent!! My parents were divorced by the time I was 2 years old, my father had the disappearing act down pat. He never payed my mother child support, either. My stepfather basically raised me. One day, I finally told my father that I didn't see him as a father anymore, I told him I call him "mike" and my stepfather "Dad". I basically freed him of his responsibility's that he never took the time to be responsible for anyway. I haven't had any problems w/ him since,he pretty much got the point and now he's out of my life--for good. Tell him it's too late, there's no way to make up for lost time. Remind him the only memories the girls have of him are memories of him not being there.