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Personally, I think your responsibility now lies first and foremost with your daughters. IMO, you need to lay it on the line with your mother that if she can't treat your daughters with kindness and respect when in their company, then she won't be seeing ANY of you (not at holidays or any other time). Having said that, you need to stick with it. Your daughters don't need to be subjected to a family member that is going to be cold and unloving to them. They need to be surrounded by love and support. If your mother can't provide that, then she doesn't need to spend time with your family.
I wish the best for you and your family. Hopefully your mother will come around in time. If not, then just make separate arrangements for just your father to spend time with you and your family.
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