Pamalou -
Sometimes we feel we have no right to name the baby. Or sometimes bmoms are TOLD they have no right, and sometimes, like with my son, I felt it was meant to be for him to be raised with them... and it was meant for them to give him his first - and only - name.
With my daughter her father named her - and I find that special. Though of course her amom insisted her name was the name they gave her... very selfish but regardless, she will always have two names whereas my son has but one.
Also, I'm a terrible 'namer' !
Mam - I think that beard IS your Irish side coming out...!!
Pam - I hope you get that harp
I think I'm jealous now...
Maia