|
She's probably scared and confused if she's like any other birthmother. Give her some space and respect her wishes. She may come around. She may not.
I don't think a letter is completely out of line as long as you don't pressure her to meet with you. Saying things like, "We were really hoping to meet you" is only going to add extra stress to do what OTHER people want her to do instead of thinking of the baby and her own needs first and foremost.
__________________
Jenna
 Mom to two boys: Nick, 3 & Parker, 1
Writing the family side of fire life at Stop, Drop & Blog
I now write for three blogs on AdoptionBlogs.com! Come read!
|