Just an update, frustrated rant, and hope for some advice, Ok well the judge did throw out the termination apparently her rights are not terminated but her obligation to pay child support is, so she can have the priviledges with no responiblity? Well thats a great call to make irresponible people! Anyhow he isnt giving in, I was almost ready to give in but knowing the sick and serious threat she is to the children I cannot allow myself to do that we do not have the money unforunately at this time to follow through with the threat of a lawyer (the judges are really bad about jerking you around if you dont have one here) and I seriously dont know what else to do, the termination and step parent adoption thus far has taken alot of money and since he is getting ready to throw it out unless we find her for the consent or come up with the money to redo the stupid termination (which really gets me by the way how could the judge who signed the legal order for her termination now look at the same paper and say her rights are not terminated?????
eek: then we are in a tough spot it would be so much easier if I didnt feel like I had to do this asap for the kids safety anyhow anyone have any advice, suggestions anything if you do please respond any info would be great! Sorry to go on and good luck to everyone else ou there!