12-05-2004, 11:12 PM
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Yes its harmful, and to subscribe to the assumption that she will never find out is a little naive…because she will find out…either while her parents are alive or after they die, the truth will be known…and when she finds out her entire life was built around a lie, it will be one the most devastating thing she will ever have to face.
Hiding the truth as well as not supporting the different aspects that many adoptees face is the worst thing you can do to a child…
I am shocked and surprised that they were able to pass a homestudy based on what you’ve said.
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