[Annee]

We stalled out at a much earlier stage: the hurdle with my husband was over whether to be a parent at all. He examines everything from every angle, and he won't take on something unless he's confident he'll do a good job. It took him several years to decide that he wanted to be a parent. When it didn't happen biologically, he was quite happy to pursue adoption and, in fact, did much of the initial research himself.